Entitlement

Where does the Princess get this feeling of Entitlement from? Did I at some point in her life inadvertently teach her that she is entitled to receive everything yet work for nothing? Why does she feel like she can make all the messes and yet not have to pick up anything? Her room (yes she is the only kid that has her own room, the boys all share) gets all messy and she thinks that she can just go outside and play, yet the boys have to go clean their room before they can do anything... She makes a mess in the bathroom, that is OK, she will just say it was there before she got in there and have one of the boys clean it up... she doesn't have to take out the trash, that is one of the brother's chores, she doesn't do the dishes, that is another brother's chore, she does clear the table, but that take a moment... So from now on she has to clean her room everyday, and clean-up the bathroom everyday, the boys also have to clean their room everyday, and since the older boys have an everyday chore she should have one also, so the bathroom it is... lets see how she likes them apples...

Every time she is asked to do ANYTHING she pouts, and/or cries... its bull... and then she gets sent to her room until she is done, because it pisses me off that she is trying to manipulate me like that, so she can just go away till she is done, then she can come back when she is finished and do what I said in the first place... I don't know, is that a girl thing? Or a her thing??? Grrr... Oh well... lets see if this works....